Too many things in this world, and in my life, are surrounded by the theme of ‘timing’. I suppose anyone could make a case for why this is important, but in the grand scheme of things when people say “ooh, perfect timing”, or “i guess is was just bad timing”, does it really matter? I am in the ‘no’ camp, and here is why.
Quality. I’m not on anyone else’s schedule. When I do things, I want them to be awesome, and I do them at my own pace. My friend Andrew Hyde once said, “Things don’t happen for a reason. They happen, and you can assign a reason if it makes you feel better.” So, as far as timing is concerned, staying focused on what you want to accomplish and doing it right is more important than anything. Don’t let the timing of events sway you in one direction or another, because that’s when you start making excuses.
Purpose. Defined as ‘a fundamental human need for guiding ideals that give meaning to our actions’ (R.F.), time shows no relevance in this space. Many of us spend our entire lives trying to figure out what we are best at, or what it is we feel like we are meant to do. This can be expressed in the building of relationships to share and pass along information genetically or ideologically. In terms of fulfillment or happiness, when timing enters the equation- it becomes a race of egos. The whole model falls apart.
Opportunity. Let’s say you miss a single opportunity due to so-called timing. This, in fact, may have opened up several more opportunities that you never expected. Therefore, the timing becomes a non factor. I really think that when you look at things in terms of time and convenience, your vision becomes extremely narrowed. Try to look at things in a broader scope. You’ll find that there are opportunities everywhere when you stop looking at your watch.
These are just a few thoughts. Maybe timing is everything. What do you think?
I have been to three or four of these events- er, can’t really remember because it is always such a good time. Of course, I am talking about the monthly #denvertweetup. It’s a gathering of like-minded twitter users who enjoy adult beverages and giving to a cause. As you probably already know, tweetups are super cool because you get to meet new people in the area who you may have not had the opportunity to meet otherwise (at least IRL). Non-twitter peeps are always welcome, although I do find that “tweetup” is the word most often made fun of by folks not using the service. I say fuck that. Tweetups are awesome, and you should go whether you’re on twitter or not.
This month, which is a pre-holiday celebration, will be held at the Rackhouse Pub and will feature Trivia & Toys for Turkeys. Toys for actual turkeys you say? Are turkeys answering the trivia questions? No. That would be silly. The charitable organization chosen for the month of November is the Denver Santa Claus Shop. They help make the holidays a little bit more awesome for underprivileged families here in Denver. In order to get in, they are asking for one unwrapped toy, as long as they meet the toy guidelines. And If you can’t get to the store for a toy, a donation of $5 or more will still work. Then there is the trivia…
At 8pm sharp- Geeks Who Drink’s most fantastically popular and awesome quizmaster, RedheadWriting, will be hosting a fun round of the quiz. So make sure to get there early and form your team of 6. DearRedhead will also be there giving away prizes along with the chance to win Rackhouse Pub GCs, a gift basket from Cru Jones Society, Stranahan’s bottle service, and other cool stuff.
As if it couldn’t be any more awesome, Stranahan’s is offering three distillery tours throughout the night (7:00/7:45/8:30), and a number of healthy drink specials from 6:45 -10:00.
***You must RSVP for this event, and remember- bring money to tip and do not drink and drive.
What: Toys & Trivia for Turkeys
Where: Rackhouse Pub
When: 11/19 6:45 – 10:00pm
Why: To benefit Denver families in need
thinking about going to dunkin donuts in colorado springs next week, which is 2 hours away.
i may or may not be out of my mind.
